Why do chicks go for the prissy-dancer effiminate "metroual" type?

The answer is in the question. More and more women prefer men who aren't phobic, hyper-masculine, "dudebro" dumb jock types. And to be honest with you, a lot of women essentially are more attracted to the traits (personality and physical) exhibited by males. Metrouals fulfill that desire w/o actually being . It's a happy medium.